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Quitting Drinking When Your Partner Still Drinks
You want to quit drinking but your partner still drinks. Here's why that's not the dealbreaker it feels like, and what actually helps.
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"Nobody knows how much I actually drink."
That was me for years. Good at my job, functional, hiding the real number from everyone including myself. Then I quit anyway. Lost 18kg without a diet. Saved €2,232 and counting, without thinking about it. No AA. No willpower. No feeling like I was missing out. This blog is about the method that made it actually easy.
quit drinking
You want to quit drinking but your partner still drinks. Here's why that's not the dealbreaker it feels like, and what actually helps.
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borrowed receipts
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borrowed receipts
Elton John got clear in 1990 and never went back. His own account of why isn't a willpower story, it's an identity shift. Here's what actually happened.
identity loops
Quitting drinking finally stuck when I stopped managing behavior and started rewiring identity. Here's the mechanism, told through my own story.
identity
There's a persistent idea that you have to accept a specific label before you're allowed to change. It's not true, and it's keeping people stuck.
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